'Bachelor' Jason Mesnick broke up with Melissa BEFORE the show?
"The Bachelor" Jason Mesnick wants you to know he's not really a total wanker.
He now tells Momlogic.com that Melissa Rycroft knew their relationship was over BEFORE the show.
But he says she played the boo-hoos to the hilt anyway. And he doesn't regret a thing.
"I mean, our last conversation was: 'Are you gonna to wear the ring? Because you know we're not together.' And I think that she probably had some hopes still that maybe I was gonna change my mind, 'cause she was really upset, " he told Momlogic.com
"We didn't talk a couple of days before we shot. And that's OK. No matter what I said, she was going to be upset. We've talked about not being together over the phone, but I had to tell her stuff in person too. I'm not as cowardly as it might seem or as much of a jerk as I might seem for doing it on camera. But that was my only chance to do it."
Whom did his mom like better, Melissa or Molly Malaney?
"She didn't really have a great judge of who she thought I should be with. She said as long as I'm happy, that's what's most important. ..."
"I think it's fair for people to have the right to judge me. But it was the truth."
How do you judge him? Tell the truth!
Photo: Jason Mesnick still has some roses left. Anyone interested? Credit: ABC
I think more and more lies are coming out from Jason, which just justifies more how I think he's a real jerk. The rumors certainly sound like they are true considering how things are unfolding.
As a mother I can not believe that Melissa's mother and father did not encourage their daughter to not appear after Jason dumped her. I also can not believe that Molly would take a ring that Jason put on another woman's finger after telling her that He loved her more than life its self. Is she desperate for man who I feel will find fault in her sooner or later and dump her. No one knows the truth of why his first marriage failed or why she walked away from her son.
I think he did the right thing if you know things are not working out then end them. who cares if you went to molly after, melissa knew it was either her or molly just 6 weeks before so how much could have happend in that time not much really. I really dont understand what the big deal is he was honest about what he really felt and everyone is coming down on him and if he would have held back his feelings and cheated on her then everyone would come down on him too.. the guy cant win!
I think that Jason set a TERRIBLE example for his son. His child is going to see relationships the way his dad shows him. Coming from the stand point of being a single parent myself, SHAME ON YOU JASON!!!!
Yeah, Jason's just another loser on a reality show. His annoying facial gestures and fake crying should have been a clue to all of America of what a douche bag this guy is. You don't jump up and down and act like a fool while professing your love for Melissa and then bring her on national TV to kick her to the curb. You said you don't want any regrets?? Don't you regret the way you treated her and Molly?? Just a little?? We are adults and we know that relationships don't always work out, but the way you handled it showed your real character. Big role model for your son, eh? What's the lesson here?? Hmmmm... Son, pretend to love someone, make them believe they are the best thing in your life until it gets a little rough. Then you bring them on TV, humiliate them by saying you don't want to marry them, you want the ring back, and-Oh yeah, you are going to try to get into the 2nd place lady's pants. NICE one!! As a side note to Molly. WTF are you doing going back to a guy who DUMPED your A$$ for another woman who he loved more, made him happier, and wants to marry her?? MARRY HER, not just mess around with her. What kind of girl takes that from a man and then tells everyone she was HOPING he will knock on her door and take her back?? You seem to have a lot going for you, well, except maybe the self-control to not run back to a man that treated you like that. In front of MILLIONS of people!! What a story to tell the grandkids... Well your grandpa was screwing 2-3 women when we met, but that just made me want him more. He led me on for weeks and boy did I love it!! It was all precious and wonderful, well, until that one day he told me he didn't want me anymore. He said he found him another lady who he loved more and she made him happier than I did. But don't worry kids, grandma was just desperate enough to wait a couple months until he got sick of her. Then it was my turn for some sloppy-seconds...I can feel the hearts melting already. Get a clue! What if in another six weeks, he starts thinking about Megan/Erica/Naomi/mom with the crazy eyebrows again??? He has to do the right thing and break up with you on another After the Final Rose-Part 26!! Woohooo!!! Setting my TiVo already!!
I thought Jason was a great guy until he dumped Melissa in front of the cameras. That's a private matter that he should have taken care of in private. I think in the long run, Melissa will come out of this whole mess smelling like a rose. Although I would have to say that Molly seems to be a wonderful person, sooner or later, he'll dump her. He needs to have more regard for people's feelings.
I think hes a PLAYER....
He says that he didn't have another choice. How about ALL the holidays you spent together, or flying to see her or vice versa. If someone meant that much to him, as she did in the beginning then there's all a way to tell someone you don't want to be with them. National Television is not the way to go. I think he's full of exuses, and needs to make himself feel better
What I really think of him, is he is a looser. If he wanted to be with fake Molly then he should not of picked Melissa to begin with.
I think he loves to be in front of the camera , and he's a liar.
I think he has been talking to fake , ugly Molly all a long.
He loves attention. He tells Melissa he loved her 3 or 4 times the night he proposed.
How many times is he going to propose in 8 months, Come on Jason get a life and quit crying like a sissy.
You are with the wrong person.
You should of never dumped Melissa on live TV. It's not all about you.
Your contract had nothing to do with it.
I have two things to say. First off I am shocked that ABC would allow something that degrading to happen on tv. How far has this show gone for ratings?
2nd. Why would Molly, knowing that, Melissa just left the show minutes before, sit there on public televison and hold hands and kiss Jason when first off she was second choice and second she had to realize Melissa probably just left the show heartbroken.